Monday, March 25, 2013

Life is a mystery.


Standing in the Mystery

There is a great mystery here. By 'mystery' I do not mean temporary ignorance that will later be swept away by additional information, or questions that will someday be resolved by future research. I mean mystery in the strongest possible sense—something unknowable, something essentially beyond human understanding.”
                                    Larry Dossey, M.D. (Healing Words)

Do you ever wonder why bad things happen to good people? Or conversely, why people who are essentially self-serving and mean-spirited seem to skate under the radar and live well and long? We talked about that just yesterday in the spirituality group. One participant said the Old Testament book of Job made him angry because it suggested that God sat idly by and allowed Satan to oppress Job in terrible ways. In essence, God colluded in Satan's plan. In some ways, we have absorbed this attitude. When people suffer great loss or become terribly sick, we wonder, if only momentarily, what they did to bring it on themselves.

Some of us would like to ascribe God's hand in all things, and therefore, find ways to attribute both fortune and misfortune to God. We say, “the Lord has blessed me” when we receive an unexpected gift, and we say, “it was God's will” when something terrible happens. Neither is worth our breath. Last week, for instance, a young boy was shot to death downtown while he played at a skateboard park with other children. Random, unannounced, inexplicable violence claims hundreds of children every day. God's hand was nowhere near that. A family traveling home from Spring Break stood in front of a departures and arrivals sign at the Birmingham airport when the sign came loose from its moorings and fell on them. Their ten-year-old son died from his injuries. Unfathomable misfortune. Both these incidents crushed the hearts of the families involved. God had nothing to do with it.

Let us spend a bit of time this week, Holy Week, coming to terms with the fact that the sun shines on the bad as well as the good, and storms fall on good as well as bad. This is life. The best we can do is give thanks when fortune smiles on us, and grieve when tragedy occurs. We can stand with our brothers and sisters in good times and bad. And we can respect and appreciate the mystery of it all.

                                             In the spirit,
                                                Jane

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