Tuesday, October 16, 2012

Spouting off in Ashville


Blowing the Stack

On a personal level, I believe that we are all capable of improvement. We can transform ourselves. If, for example...you were to spend a few minutes everyday thinking about and trying to develop compassion, eventually compassion, the essence of spiritual practice, will become part of your life. When that happens I am convinced that not only will your life be happier but you will also make a direct contribution to peace and happiness in the world as a whole.”
                               His Holiness the Dalai Lama

Yesterday was a day of pure frustration. The planets were out of alignment, the gods were not happy, and wrath rained down in sheets upon this mountain. And it was all due to our precious technology. First the television reception faltered, leaving those who wanted to watch 'their shows' in the dark. One of our party, the most cool and level headed (NOT I!) spent hours on the phone with tech support to get it back in order.

Then, in a separate but equal conflagration, the internet dropped out of existence. With seven 'connected' women here, some who had to be available to work/school, that was not a good thing. So our prudent and kind-hearted friend spent more hours—many more hours—on the phone with yet another cohort of techno-geeks only to be flummoxed at every turn. We still do not have internet access, so I will be trekking down to Starbucks to post today. At nine-thirty last night Ma Bell's minions said they would have to dispatch a technician to 'assess the problem' sometime today. In short, yesterday was a technological black hole into which we all fell.

When I'm in a black hole, I am not compassionate. Had I been the one trying to communicate with the support folks, I would have singed their eyebrows with vitriolic rage and thrown the flat-screen and every single laptop in the house off the side of this mountain. Fortunately for the world, I was not in charge. It was a beautiful day and the autumn colors are beginning to peak, so I went for long walks and thought calming thoughts. I can't say I managed to conger compassion, but at least I didn't draw blood. Progress is progress, don't you think?

I pray that your day is free of frustration and that you will be able to practice compassion in all that you do. Pray for me, too. I'll try not to rip the AT&T technician in unspeakable places, which I think, all in all, is pretty darn compassionate.

                                                 In the spirit,
                                                     Jane

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